Should I have Sex with My Ex to Get Back with Them?
Sleeping with Your Ex Can Be Hot and Amazingly Fun! Just Proceed with Caution.
If you have the option (which most do NOT) or if you are considering sleeping with your ex after an official breakup and you want to get back together, there are general rules to follow. It all depends on your situation and the benefits versus cost in terms of reconciling.
Call us before you go any farther because sex is powerful and it may be the difference between reconciliation and even more damage.
Sex with Your Ex Girlfriend
If your ex is a woman, sleeping with her can be beneficial to getting back together with her in a huge way.
Not always, but as a general rule, women are more emotionally connected as a whole to men once they commit to sex with them, and so it has more impact in a positive way in re-attraction. However, if the breakup is recent and they are just looking for a quickie it will most likely backfire.
Sex With Your Ex Boyfriend
If your ex is a man, sleeping with him is not a good idea.
Unfortunately, men need to be forced to work harder for sex and if you give it to them after a breakup too easily, you are lowering your odds of reconciliation. As a general rule, it is not a good idea to have sex with your ex boyfriend, but it can be very good at the later stages of the reconciliation process. Call us to discuss your unique situation and we can advise you with the best options.
Sleeping with a Rebound While Trying to Get Back with Your Ex?
That’s a real sticky situation. Make sure your ex does not find out, regardless of gender. You may ‘need to’ do this and it actually could be amazing for you by helping get your mojo back, but it is not always a good idea. Your friends will ALL be telling you it is a GREAT IDEA, but it won’t help with reconciliation and getting your ex back when the sex is flaunted and used to cultivate jealousy.