https://zoomonkey.com/2012/08/08/three-things-to-avoid-when-contacting-your-ex/ We are an online source helping people deal with relationship advice and breakup advice. We help people get their ex back or move on with new relationships if they choose. Tue, 13 Jan 2015 03:56:24 +0000 hourly 1 https://zoomonkey.com/2012/08/08/three-things-to-avoid-when-contacting-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-773 Tue, 13 Jan 2015 03:56:24 +0000 https://zoomonkey.com/?p=389#comment-773 my boyfriend and i broke up on the 1st of january this year. we still live in the same house, but he has retreated and started living in the basement (his man cave). i applied there no contact rule and 6 days later he gave me and my 8 year-old daughter (from my former marriage) a present which he left on my table with no note. i don’t know what to make of it. i sent a thank you note and left it on the coffee table where he can see it. my daughter also left a thank you note too. he took my thank you note and not my daughter’s note. he left my daughter’s note by the bedroom door. what does this mean? it’s been 9 days since we have spoken and seen each other. i don’t know what to do. i’m still doing no contact. he also wants me to get my stuff out of the common areas, now that we have a new roommate, so he non-verbally does this by leaving my belongings at my bedroom door and opening all cabinets in the living room that has my belongings in it. i would move out, but simply cannot afford to. i really do still love him. a lot of our break-up has too do with finances. PLEASE RESPOND TO MY SITUATION. I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO OR MAKE OF IT. I NEED HELP.

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